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Friday, December 30th, 2011

The modern world is addicted to commotion, and the more the better. Because of this, some people stay chained to distractions and cannot tap into their body’s natural potential to break free. Pressure is created when the mind is not doing what the body is. If you are doing bills and your mind is wandering from picking up the kids and making dinner to finishing up at work, that creates anxiety. But if your mind is listening carefully on what your body is doing, then there is no anxiety. This is one of the essential meditation techniques.

The majority meditation techniques believe the mind-body already exists. This works well in a mountain monastery, but can be not easy to achieve with the hectic tempo of current lifestyle. A more basic gateway into that mind-body relationship is considered necessary.

A transition from the current world into meditation should tap into the senses. You are trying to strengthen the attachment and focus your mind on multiple levels. Find ways to utilize textures that attract you, sounds that quiet you, and scents that increase your focus.

Conduct test with straightforward, easy motions to unwind your body and to prepare yourself for meditation. Activity can focus the mind and help you become independent from from the cyclone of thoughts produced each day. Think of running your hands through a stream, or through a fountain if you have one available. Play with smooth stones, or construct shapes of clay or sand. Flip a smooth stick of wood or roll it forwards and backwards between your hands.

Once you’ve disconnected from the present world, you’ll be able to truly take advantage of your meditation time. A more targeted, aware state of being will let you to delve deeper into your inner self. You may be astounded at what you can actually see with eyes closed.

Once believed of as a ritual completed by men who shaved their heads, wore long robes and lived in a mountain cave, this mind quieting, tension relieving normal self-healing routine is becoming so ordinary that firms such as Deutsche Bank, Google and Hughes Aircraft know the intuitive powers of it and offer meditation classes to their employees.

Having the capability to quiet one’s mind and move back to a thought-free state of quietness opens the relationship to higher intelligence and greatly enhances problem-solving abilities. In addition, with practice and coaching you are able to develop the talent to ask pointed questions and get replies to them through this same dynamic channel.

The amount of miracles born out of a regular practice of meditation are countless. From loosing weight and quitting smoking, to manifesting more money and material items, to rekindling relationships and curing terminal conditions, millions of accounts of miracles just like these are attributed to meditation techniques.

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Friday, December 30th, 2011

Meditation is one of the most intrinsic part of Yoga. Meditation makes the person get back to his own self. The person is then able to deal with the stress and strain that the world has to offer. Times have changed a lot. Changes are much more rapid now. Human relationships have changed to a point when conversations and the non-verbal cues are not as simple as they look. There are a lot of benefits that emerge from meditation. Meditation make the person emerge happier and stronger. Meditation music CDs from Spirit Voyage make the entire meditation process a much more blessed affair. Jewels of Silence and Sound Massage are perfect for any Yoga student who is in the look-out for that perfect meditation music CD to enrich his experience. Meditation is thus the art of finding the center.

There is another practice which plays an equally effective role in helping an individual cope with the stress and strain that the world has to offer, everyday. Besides various Yoga procedures like Kundalini Yoga, Hatha Yoga or Asthanga Yoga, massage therapy helps to release the bottlenecks that are created during the day and which result in various kinds of pain. The much needed oxygen reaches the muscles, easing the tension. It has been one of the best ways to release fatigue and tensions. Doctors from the world-over are waking up to the proven benefits of massage therapy and are employing it to cure many diseases like high blood pressure, arthritis etc. The session can be even more beneficial when massage therapy music from Spirit Voyage is played during the course of time. It helps in speeding up the recovery. Massage and music therapy has been proven to alter brain patterns and offer therapeutic help for patients suffering from anxiety and depression.

There are many message therapy music that a person can look-after for having that perfect massaging experience. There are many Yoga DVDs in the market which offer help for that perfect messaging time. Flow Yoga for beginners is a perfect Yoga DVD that will induce relaxation. Along with it, Kundalini Yoga for Relaxation from Spirit Voyage is also another Yoga DVD to reckon with. These Yoga DVDs, when they are played alongside the message help in fastening up the process of relaxation. Stress is one of the most common cause of people not being happier with themselves. Too much stress makes the person find difficulties in every situation. Yoga music from Spirit Voyage helps the individual turn over a new leaf and find answers to all the problems without failing in any sphere of life.

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Friday, December 30th, 2011

Walking meditation

This is one of the easiest ways to meditate, although obviously it isn’t as separate from the rest of the world as you need to be aware of your surroundings. With a walking meditation you pay attention to your feelings and your surroundings. Allow yourself 20 minutes or so and if possible choose a place where you’re away from traffic. A local park is good. Then go for a gentle walk and take in the area. Notice the smells and sounds and pay attention to what you see.

Breathing meditation

At its simplest, you find a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed and start to take deeper breaths than you’d normally take. Breathe in a long, slow, deep breath. If possible hold it for a second or two before releasing it, again slowly. Repeat this over again, at least 5 times and ideally more. You’ll find that this is a quick way to bring about a more relaxed state in your body.

Binaural beats meditation

This is the “modern” way to meditate and is the method I personally use regularly. You can purchase this kind of meditation and then play it on your CD or MP3 player. You need to find a place where you won’t be disturbed for the length of the track, which is typically 30 to 60 minutes. The track will play a background noise – usually rainfall or music – as well as binaural beats. These beats play two slightly different tones, one into each ear. Your brain then tries to resolve the small difference between the tones and it is this which brings out a meditative state with next to no effort on your part. This kind of meditation is very powerful – don’t get taken in by its simplicity!

Cosmic meditation

Quite similar to the binaural beats meditation, this is usually linked to Cosmic Ordering which is a structured form of Napoleon Hill’s ideas from Think and Grow Rich. A cosmic meditation usually takes the form of a guided meditation which will get you relaxed and then allow you to send your current wish or goals liston to the cosmos.

Guided meditation

There are many of these available on the internet. They usually last between 20 and 60 minutes. Typically a guided meditation will start with a relaxation procedure so that you’re relaxed and receptive for the main part of the meditation. It will then move on to the actual aim of the meditation, whether this is deep relaxation, healing your body, contacting your higher self or any other goal you have chosen. You can choose a single guided meditation or they are often sold in bundles of several guided meditations.

Whichever way of meditation you decide to use, you’ll find that it helps to relax you and relieve the stresses and strains that seem to accompany our modern lifestyle.

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Thursday, December 29th, 2011

NEW YORK – Before the housing, sanitation and nonviolent communication groups had their say, the Occupy Wall Street facilitator began the night meeting with guided meditation. Someone stood up to object, saying all that controlled, deep breathing was oppressive.

In the disorganized democracy that Occupy prides itself on, everything – even the right way to breathe – is up for debate.

The moment exposed the new, more scattered leadership that has crept into the movement since its largest encampments shut down.

Instead of 24-hour base camps, Occupy Wall Street’s center of gravity has devolved into dozens of smaller groups with different agendas and objectives. Some want to find other places to occupy. Others want to shut down the ports, march for Egypt, move the downtrodden into foreclosed homes.

Some protesters say the smaller groups are getting in the way of the larger message of bridging the country’s gap between the superrich and the poor.

“I’m going to set up a committee to disband all committees,” joked Andrea Townsend, who has led general assembly meetings in Portland, Ore.

Key organizers – they don’t call themselves leaders, because they say no one person is in charge – say the movement and its protesters are staying true to the mission of embracing and promoting every member’s issue.

“I think we’re big enough at this point that people can be working on different things,” said Sandy Nurse, a member of New York’s direct action committee. “I don’t think anyone’s in competition with anybody.”

But experts say that as the presidential campaign season heats up, Occupy could become a powerful force at political conventions if it got on the same page and pushed key issues. Time magazine named “The Protester” its Person of the year on Wednesday, citing Occupy Wall Street as one of many movements “redefining people power” around the world.

“You cannot run a movement as if it’s a participatory democracy,” said Mitchell Moss, a New York University urban planning professor. “An effective movement is not about being unhappy, but about getting things done.”

When Occupy Wall Street encampments in New York and elsewhere were going strong, the decision-making centered on the movement’s general assembly and spokescouncil meetings, held daily. But since New York’s main camp at Zuccotti Park was shut down on Nov. 15, members say groups are working more separately on pet causes.

“You see kind of new people emerging all the time,” said Mario Rodriguez, a union organizer who belongs to New York’s direct action group. “Are they all on the same page? In terms of strategy and tactics, I don’t think they are.”

An email that recently passed through Rodriguez’s inbox talked of 101 working groups that were now part of Occupy in New York – direct action and facilitation are a bit more visible than others focused on things such as the principles of solidarity, for example. More than 40 groups had meetings scheduled on one recent day (Music, Earth Summit, Occupy Educated, Yoga), several at the same time.

Occupy members say they’re still accomplishing a lot without camping out. On Monday, protesters forced shipping terminals from Washington state to California to halt parts of their operations. New York members sat down in the middle of Wall Street, have marched on the Egyptian consulate and Goldman Sachs Group Inc. Portland, Ore., members are protesting in the parks; cities from Seattle to Atlanta reclaimed foreclosed homes and boarded-up properties, moving struggling families into them.

Nurse said her efforts are focused on finding a new encampment in New York to replace Zuccotti Park. A church-owned building in downtown Manhattan – occupied by protesters on the day they were evicted – is a possibility. “Whichever space we find that works for that, we’re gonna take,” she said.

Nurse said no one is in charge of the group – one member who had been previously referred to as head of finance now says he is a member of the accounting group. The movement is united in its separateness, organizers say.

“There’s no one group that is in charge of all the other groups,” said New York member Austin Guest. “We’re kind of inviting each other to each other’s meetings, trying to be autonomous and in coordination with each other.”

Without the 24-hour presence of the encampments, however, cracks have crept into the unity. Members in some cities say that the general assembly is where everything is decided.

In Portland, organizer Gina Ronning said, “the (general assemblies) are for the visionary elements, the values,” not to decide and plan major actions.

Thursday, December 29th, 2011

My last three articles dealt with a burgeoning phenomenon — mindful awareness — which has been gaining popularity among public and private school administrators, as a method to help kids relax, become more attentive and less aggressive at school. In this concluding piece, I present thoughts from established mindfulness practitioners who discuss the state of mindfulness research, from its practice pitfalls and nuanced lexicon, to its necessity in today’s complex world.

Mindfulness — the practice of cultivating awareness, attention, acceptance and non-judgement — was originally designed for adults and brought into the American mainstream in the 1970s by Jon Kabat-Zinn , the founder of the Stress Reduction Program at the University of Massachusetts Medical School. He developed a standardized teaching method called Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction ( MBSR ) that introduced multitudes of adults to mindfulness meditation and yoga as a way to improve their capacity to deal with stress, chronic pain and illness. Various clinical studies have shown MBSR to have beneficial results in reducing high blood pressure, serum cholesterol, depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress and eating disorders.

While popular with adults, the practice of applying mindfulness to education is not a recent phenomenon. Its principles can be found in the work of 20th century educators like Maria Montessori, Rudolf Steiner and Jiddu Krishnamurti, who all talked about bringing depth and contemplation into teaching and education.

With children, mindful awareness has to be structured differently. Dr. Patricia Jennings — director of contemplative education at the Garrison Institute , a research institute for contemplative practices — says successful practices like MBSR cannot be applied to kids as their minds and brains are wired differently. “The best practices to stimulate mindfulness awareness in kids are sensory activities that involve focused attention on something concrete, like listening and looking or movement activities that involve yoga or martial arts,” said Jennings.

In a British Columbia study, published last year in the Mindfulness Journal , Dr. Kimberly Schonert-Reichl found that middle schoolers exposed to a range of mindful education exercises — breathing, attention, emotional control and self acknowledgment — showed significant improvements in attention, concentration, empathy, and compassion.

Research at the University of Wisconsin demonstrated that master meditators have increased activity in the left pre-frontal cortex, the area associated with emotional well-being. Although these studies have not been replicated in children, Yi-Yuan Tang and others at the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences found that college undergraduates who underwent 30 minutes of daily relaxation training exercises for a month, including body relaxation and mindfulness, had positive effects on brain functions related to self regulation.

These results are promising but Jennings is skeptical and believes they are at best, preliminary. “There is a tendency for people to get very hyperbolic about these results, but we don’t have a lot of it,” said Jennings. “Most data is anecdotal and I have read every article there is on the issue. There is a lot of extremely promising research on adults but not on children.”

Jennings believes good scientific research will positively affect the traction and sustainability of mindfulness practice in education. “American education has a history of faddism; some good idea comes into the mainstream, they don’t see immediate results and then it’s dropped,” said Jennings. In addition, she is worried that the lack of research could present a backlash from religious groups who believe meditation is a religious practice.

Linda Lantieri , director of the Inner Resilience Program , a non-profit organization dedicated to improving the inner lives of teachers and children, believes that when mindfulness is connected to Social and Emotional Learning , it has a higher chance of being accepted into K to 12 education. Currently, Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning (CASEL) has a bill in Congress to pass SEL legislation that would make it a part of every school’s curriculum.

While Trinity’s administrators and parents are happy with its mindfulness practice, Susan Kaiser Greenland , founder of the Inner Kids Foundation and author of The Mindful Child , believes that the practice has a few shortcomings.

First, the objective of mindfulness should become broader. Greenland, a lawyer and one of the earliest mindfulness practitioners, believes that when mindfulness is used just as a calming activity or to quiet an unruly class, its aim is limited. “The classical mindfulness practice is to learn to be with what is; to tolerate uncertainty whether pleasant or unpleasant and be in the center of it, a quality all great leaders have,” said Greenland, in a telephone interview.

Second, Greenland underscores the importance of practitioner training. “When people start teaching mindfulness, they are very enthusiastic, but are surprised when a parent or teacher says it doesn’t work,” said Greenland. “Very frequently, and often misunderstood with kids, is that mindfulness is a calming activity. But when people start, sometimes minds don’t calm down, it can get even more agitated, because their awareness is heightened.”

This phenomenon, called “flooding,” can occur in extreme cases when children relive experiences that are too difficult to tolerate or hold and can occur particularly in underserved populations where there could be trauma or other things going on at home.

“People will not think of hiring a piano teacher who does not know how to play the piano, but anyone can go in and teach mindfulness,” said Greenland.

And third, the variant lexicon of mindfulness — mindful awareness , MindUP and contemplative education — can be confusing. These terms have become popular among educators that the question being asked today is: Are all these educators really talking about the same thing anymore? Especially considering the dearth of guidelines or set of practices. If we use Jon Kabat-Zinn’s definition of being present in the moment without judgment, then all these practitioners are doing mindfulness in some form or another.

“It’s an evolving field, filed with a lot of great work, and we have a lot of optimism, but it’s anything but mature,” said Greenland.

Irrespective of scientific research, the field is mushrooming in various adolescent settings throughout the world. Lantieri, Jennings and Greenland frequently travel abroad as speakers and mindfulness experts, a testimonial to its importance in todays fast-paced world.

Jennings says the current educational climate requiring standardized testing, has put tremendous stress on schools, and that programs like MindUP could create a calmer, grounded approach to teaching and learning. “If we don’t take the time to help kids, they fail school,” said Jennings. “Without a feeling of safety and community, these kids cannot get their pre-frontal cortexes engaged in learning. Their limbic system is constantly on high alert because they are threatened. To help them learn, we have to provide a safe and calm atmosphere and the emotional support to learn.”

Adele Diamond , neuroscientist, seconds Jennings’ feelings and strongly believes that the current educational philosophy of increasing academic time by eliminating recess, is counterintuitive in the long run. “In fact if you spend less time on academics and devote time to to being physically fit, less stressed, to doing things that bring joy; you actually do better,” says Diamond.

Regardless of all these issues, when mindfulness works and children benefit, it can be a beautiful thing as demonstrated by Michael Delaney, a Trinity school third grader. He says things have definitely changed for the better since he’s started practicing and has had innumerable experiences of using it in his life. Michael related one recent experience with his older brother, Jack. “When my brother wants to play on the Kinect Xbox 360 game when I am already playing on it, he gets angry,” Michael says. “Then I’ll either do tense and release or do sighing breath in my room. I may feel a bit angry but a bit calmer. If I don’t do it we get into fights.”

Thursday, December 29th, 2011

Meditation has manifested a lot of beneficial effects in the body, as seen in studies on the cardiovascular system, respiratory system, digestive system, nervous system and other systems in the body. It is also known to improve and regulate heart rate, breathing rate and digestion. Because of this, many doctors include it as an alternative therapy to help patients recover faster. In addition to this, meditation reduces stress and therefore used in chronic diseases to lower or reduce complications which are generally related to stress.

There are two types of meditation: the concentrative and the mindfulness meditation. The concentrative meditation aims to focus one’s mind into only one thought, experience, sound, or object. It lets the mind focus and therefore pushes away some other thoughts that might overwork the mind and create distractions. For example, in a breathing exercise involved in meditation, it lets the person focus on his or her breathing alone, putting all the attention in the process on breathing: in inhaling and exhaling.

On the other hand, mindfulness meditation lets an individual focus on an array of experiences, and not just one. Both positive and negative thoughts are allowed to pass through the mind, allowing the person to see them all, without having to judge, react, or analyze. Even, if these two types differ greatly on what to focus to, their goal remains the same: to refresh the mind and promote relaxation.

You may want to ask, is meditation safe? Well, looking at all its benefits and how easy it could be done, we could say that meditation is safe. However, the question about the safeness of meditation is not yet fully researched and studied. What is best to do, especially for persons who are undergoing psychological problems, is to consult an expert or a mental health professional before doing meditation.

Meditation is a recognized form of therapy, as it has already been widely studied in many aspects. You can always ask your doctor what alternative therapies you could do or undergo that will complement your medications. Coordination with the experts will greatly help in achieving great and desired results.

About meditation, it could be done on your own and could be performed by anybody. However, deep meditation may require the help of an instructor that’s why you may want to find someone to train you. Some meditative techniques require intense practice in order for them to be mastered.

Always remember that doing things right, which is having a right motive and means, will give you positive results. Meditation and its goals are never negative. Use meditation to its fullest and in a right way so that in the end, you may experience the benefits and the great results it promises.

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Thursday, December 29th, 2011

Sometimes science delves into taboo subjects – and turns up interesting results. This year was no exception, with researchers delving into such blush-worthy topics as premature orgasms, sex toys and even bestiality. Here are 10 of the stories that reddened our cheeks in 2011.

1. Premature orgasm isn’t just for men

It’s not just men who struggle with finishing too early in the sack. According to research published in the journal Sexologies in October, premature orgasm may be more common than expected in women. In a preliminary survey of Portuguese women, researchers at the Hospital Magalhães Lemosin Porto, Portugal, found that 14 percent had frequent and distressing early orgasms during sex. The women couldn’t control their orgasms and often found that they were uncomfortable continuing with sex afterwards, leaving their partners in the lurch. According to the researchers, more research is needed to find out if female premature orgasm, like male premature ejaculation, should be an official sexual dysfunction.

2. Americans love vibrators

This may or may not come as a surprise, but Americans are apparently quite approving of sex toys , at least for women. A national survey this year found that about half of respondents agreed with statements such as “a vibrator is a healthy part of many women’s sex lives.” In comparison, fewer than 10 percent of respondents agreed with negative views, including the belief that vibrators are intimidating to a woman’s partner.

An earlier analysis by the same researchers found that 53 percent of women and 45 percent of men had used vibrators in their lifetimes. Furthermore, vibrator use was correlated with sexual satisfaction.

3. Meditation can be sexy

Another way women can get more out of sex: meditation . According to research released in November, women trained in “mindfulness meditation” became more aware of their bodies’ responses to sexy stimuli such as erotic photographs. This meditation, which teaches people to stay in the present, seems to silence the chatter of anxious and insecure thoughts that plague some women during sex, the researchers reported in the journal Psychosomatic Medicine. We’ll never look at a yoga class the same way again.

4. Early humans were sexual experimenters

The news that humans and Neanderthals probably got busy with one another first broke in 2010. But 2011 has brought a succession of new research to enlighten us on just how friendly our early hominid ancestors got. In July, for example, researchers reported new DNA evidence that a particular Neanderthal gene fragment is present in 9 percent of humans across the globe, except in Africa. That means that the sexual tryst or trysts that led to this gene mixing would have happened soon after humans began to migrate out of Africa.

And in Asia between 23,000-and-45,000-years ago, humans got cozy with Denisovans , a mysterious human ancestor that forked off from the Neanderthal branch of the family tree.

On the other hand, all this cross-species intimacy may have been its own birth control. Research released in September found that human-Neanderthal interbreeding likely only led to offspring less than 2 percent of the time.

5. Teens think oral sex is less risky

Despite growing evidence that oral sex increases the risk of some head and neck cancers, teens think of it as a less-risky sex act than vaginal or anal intercourse, according to research presented in February at the annual meeting of the American Association for the Advancement of Science. Close to 14 percent of teens surveyed said they didn’t think oral sex came with any health risks. In fact, because of the transmission of the human papilloma virus (HPV), having more oral-sex partners is associated with higher risks of mouth and throat cancers.

6. Vaccines don’t cause teen sex

On the subject of teen sex, it turns out that vaccinating adolescents for HPV won’t encourage them to dive into promiscuity. In research released this December and to appear in the January issue of the American Journal of Preventative Medicine, the Centers for Disease Control and Statistics reported that teen women who get the HPV vaccine are no more likely to engage in risky sexual behavior than unvaccinated women.

In fact, girls who had the HPV vaccine were actually more likely to use condoms when they had sex than girls who didn’t, likely because they were more knowledgeable about sexually transmitted diseases, the researchers reported. Apparently, the HPV vaccine is one thing we don’t need to blush about.

7. College students: More talk than action

In September, researchers uncovered a truth that might deflate the egos of college students a little bit. Although students believe that casual sex, or hook-ups, are common on campus, there’s a lot more talk than action going on in dorm rooms.

Researchers at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln queried students on how often they and their peers hooked up with other students. They found that perceptions rarely matched reality. For example, 90 percent of students thought that at-least-two hookups were “typical” for a college career. In fact, only 37 percent of people had that many. Inflating the number of notches on your bedpost never gets old, it seems.

8. Squid swim around covered in sperm

Animals generally are less uptight about sex than humans, rarely demanding trivial comforts like, say, privacy. But the deep-sea squid Octopoteuthis deletron takes casual sex to a new level. These squid live in the dark waters off the coast of California, and they rarely run into other squid of their species. When they do, researchers reported in the journal Biology Letters, the squid don’t take the time to find out whether they’ve met a male or a female: They just ejaculate sperm packets onto their new acquaintance and jet out of there. Embarrassingly for the targeted squid, but useful for researchers trying to track mating attempts, the sperm packets stay stuck to the squid’s bodies, signaling a recent amorous run-in.

9. There’s poop on the coffee table

To veer away from sex for just a moment: 2011 brought us some very, very bad news about single men’s coffee tables. According to microbiology researchers, bachelor pads harbor 15 times the amount of bacteria as the homes of bachelorettes. And some of those bacteria are the ones found in feces.

In fact, those fecal coliforms showed up on seven-out-of-every-10 coffee tables in single-guy homes sampled by researchers. The culprit is likely men putting their feet up on the table while wearing shoes, the researchers reported.

Single women shouldn’t get too smug: fecal coliforms show up in their homes, too, just in lower concentrations than in the homes of single men. Other fecal coliform hot spots include the TV remote, nightstands and doorknobs.

10. Bestiality and penile cancer

If you took the first nine entries in this countdown in stride, prepare to cringe at least a little at number 10: According to research published in November in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, having sex with animals is linked with penile cancer .

Researchers managed to uncover this connection by studying 492 men from rural Brazil. They found that a whopping 35 percent reported sex with animals in their lifetimes. Men with penile cancer were more likely to have had sex with animals, the researchers found. They speculate that penile injuries plus foreign secretion from distantly related species may introduce microorganisms that cause cancer, much as the human papilloma virus does. Now if you’ll excuse us, we’re off to bleach our brains!

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Thursday, December 29th, 2011

Dr Clive Wood examines why people with an optimistic outlook on life and a reason to get out of bed every morning tend to be healthier and live longer lives

PSYCHOLOGISTS have discovered that people with an optimistic attitude to life have better health than those who are more pessimistic.

Not only that, but people who have a happy outlook actually live longer that those who don’t.

The reasons why happy people seem to enjoy so many advantages is the subject of a new 10-week course at Cardiff University.

Anyone can attend. You don’t need any special qualifications.

Called Positive Psychology and the Meaning of Life the course looks at a new branch of psychology that explores the things that make people happy and contented with their lives.

So what, according to this new science, does make people happy? Surprisingly enough, the answer is not material possessions. Acquiring more “stuff” may give you a short-term boost in happiness but it soon falls back again to where it was before. People adapt very quickly both to good things and to bad.

What the research has shown is that feeling grateful for the things that you have produces more long-term happiness than simply acquiring them.

A second important source of happiness revolves around our relationships with other people. But not the frantic social networking collection of hundreds of so-called “friends”. A few solid relationships – a partner, a family circle, a few real friends – are all you really need. It’s quality that counts.

Keeping active and engaged in your life is also important. Finding a meaning in life may sound very abstract, but it really only means discovering something that makes it worthwhile getting out of bed for every morning.

For some people it’s digging their allotment. For others it’s saving the world from global warming or from global capitalism. Whatever your individual meaning, people who have something to aim for tend to be happier – and healthier – than those who don’t.

One unexpected result of recent work in positive psychology is that kindness, generosity and a genuine desire to help other people also increases the happiness of the person doing the helping.

It seems to confirm the old proverb that if you give it away then you also get it back.

We explored some of these ideas in a previous Cardiff University course last year, but in this new course we will look more closely at the links between happiness and health.

The first question is why the link exists in the first place. One obvious factor is that happy people tend to look after themselves better and drink and smoke less. But that’s not the whole story.

People who experience a lot of positive emotions also have more robust immunity, confirmed by the fact that they respond better to flu jabs. We even know which parts of the brain are involved.

The course explores these mind-body links in detail. How far are the mind and brain involved in, for example, cancer and heart disease? And what about chronic fatigue or ME, which makes sufferers feel tired all the time.

Physical treatments have a limited value. But other approaches developed to boost our emotional state might also help with the physical symptoms.

Everyone asks if we can we really teach people to be happier, and if so, how?

The answer is yes. The ceiling to your happiness depends on your genetics, just like the limits to your height. But within these limits most people have the ability to make themselves considerably happier.

We now have reliable happiness boosters with solid science behind them.

And they are not difficult to learn. Simply visualising yourself making positive changes can have a beneficial effect on your wellbeing.

And, at the end of each day, recording three things that have gone well for you can have an effect on your happiness that lasts for months.

Using a well-tested online questionnaire can help you to discover talents that you may not know you have. Using these talents in a particular way also makes people happier.

We will examine all of these techniques as the course develops. Finally, we will explore what can be achieved by concentrating our attention in particular ways.

This is meditation, but you don’t need to hold any spiritual beliefs to meditate. One method that is gaining great popularity is called mindfulness meditation – it helps you to see your life as it really is, not as you might imagine it to be.

This realisation frees you to make real choices about how you can find meaning and satisfaction.

We don’t guarantee that attending Positive Psychology and the Meaning of Life will make you happy. No single course can do that. But it will show you where the latest research is pointing so that you can strike out in new directions if you want to.

At last we are starting to develop a true science of happiness.

Positive Psychology and the Meaning of Life, is a 10-week course, which will run on Wednesdays from 5pm to 7pm from January 17 at the Cardiff Centre for Lifelong Learning. For more information or to enrol contact the centre on 029 2087 0000 or www.cardiff.ac.uk/learn

Wednesday, December 28th, 2011

Sometimes science delves into taboo subjects ” and turns up interesting results. This year was no exception, with researchers delving into such blush-worthy topics as premature orgasms, sex toys and even bestiality. Here are 10 of the stories that reddened our cheeks in 2011.

1. Premature orgasm isn’t just for men

It’s not just men who struggle with finishing too early in the sack. According to research published in the journal Sexologies in October, premature orgasm may be more common than expected in women. In a preliminary survey of Portuguese women , researchers at the Hospital Magalhes Lemosin Porto, Portugal, found that 14 percent had frequent and distressing early orgasms during sex. The women couldn’t control their orgasms and often found that they were uncomfortable continuing with sex afterwards, leaving their partners in the lurch. According to the researchers, more research is needed to find out if female premature orgasm, like male premature ejaculation , should be an official sexual dysfunction .

2. Americans love vibrators

This may or may not come as a surprise, but Americans are apparently quite approving of sex toys , at least for women. A national survey this year found that about half of respondents agreed with statements such as “a vibrator is a healthy part of many women’s sex lives.” In comparison, fewer than 10 percent of respondents agreed with negative views, including the belief that vibrators are intimidating to a woman’s partner.

An earlier analysis by the same researchers found that 53 percent of women and 45 percent of men had used vibrators in their lifetimes. Furthermore, vibrator use was correlated with sexual satisfaction.

3. Meditation can be sexy

Another way women can get more out of sex: meditation . According to research released in November, women trained in ” mindfulness meditation ” became more aware of their bodies’ responses to sexy stimuli such as erotic photographs. This meditation, which teaches people to stay in the present, seems to silence the chatter of anxious and insecure thoughts that plague some women during sex, the researchers reported in the journal Psychosomatic Medicine. We’ll never look at a yoga class the same way again.

4. Early humans were sexual experimenters

The news that humans and Neanderthals probably got busy with one another first broke in 2010. But 2011 has brought a succession of new research to enlighten us on just how friendly our early hominid ancestors got. In July, for example, researchers reported new DNA evidence that a particular Neanderthal gene fragment is present in 9 percent of humans across the globe, except in Africa. That means that the sexual tryst or trysts that led to this gene mixing would have happened soon after humans began to migrate out of Africa.

And in Asia between 23,000-and-45,000-years ago, humans got cozy with Denisovans , a mysterious human ancestor that forked off from the Neanderthal branch of the family tree.

On the other hand, all this cross-species intimacy may have been its own birth control. Research released in September found that human-Neanderthal interbreeding likely only led to offspring less than 2 percent of the time.

5. Teens think oral sex is less risky

Despite growing evidence that oral sex increases the risk of some head and neck cancers, teens think of it as a less-risky sex act than vaginal or anal intercourse, according to research presented in February at the annual meeting of the American Association for the Advancement of Science. Close to 14 percent of teens surveyed said they didn’t think oral sex came with any health risks. In fact, because of the transmission of the human papilloma virus (HPV), having more oral-sex partners is associated with higher risks of mouth and throat cancers.

6. Vaccines don’t cause teen sex

On the subject of teen sex, it turns out that vaccinating adolescents for HPV won’t encourage them to dive into promiscuity. In research released this December and to appear in the January issue of the American Journal of Preventative Medicine , the Centers for Disease Control and Statistics reported that teen women who get the HPV vaccine are no more likely to engage in risky sexual behavior than unvaccinated women.

In fact, girls who had the HPV vaccine were actually more likely to use condoms when they had sex than girls who didn’t, likely because they were more knowledgeable about sexually transmitted diseases, the researchers reported. Apparently, the HPV vaccine is one thing we don’t need to blush about.

7. College students: More talk than action

In September, researchers uncovered a truth that might deflate the egos of college students a little bit. Although students believe that casual sex, or hook-ups, are common on campus, there’s a lot more talk than action going on in dorm rooms.

Researchers at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln queried students on how often they and their peers hooked up with other students. They found that perceptions rarely matched reality. For example, 90 percent of students thought that at-least-two hookups were “typical” for a college career. In fact, only 37 percent of people had that many. Inflating the number of notches on your bedpost never gets old, it seems.

8. Squid swim around covered in sperm

Animals generally are less uptight about sex than humans, rarely demanding trivial comforts like, say, privacy. But the deep-sea squid Octopoteuthis deletron takes casual sex to a new level. These squid live in the dark waters off the coast of California, and they rarely run into other squid of their species. When they do, researchers reported in the journal Biology Letters, the squid don’t take the time to find out whether they’ve met a male or a female: They just ejaculate sperm packets onto their new acquaintance and jet out of there. Embarrassingly for the targeted squid, but useful for researchers trying to track mating attempts, the sperm packets stay stuck to the squid’s bodies, signaling a recent amorous run-in.

9. There’s poop on the coffee table

To veer away from sex for just a moment: 2011 brought us some very, very bad news about single men’s coffee tables. According to microbiology researchers, bachelor pads harbor 15 times the amount of bacteria as the homes of bachelorettes. And some of those bacteria are the ones found in feces.

In fact, those fecal coliforms showed up on seven-out-of-every-10 coffee tables in single-guy homes sampled by researchers. The culprit is likely men putting their feet up on the table while wearing shoes, the researchers reported.

Single women shouldn’t get too smug: fecal coliforms show up in their homes, too, just in lower concentrations than in the homes of single men. Other fecal coliform hot spots include the TV remote, nightstands and doorknobs.

10. Bestiality and penile cancer

If you took the first nine entries in this countdown in stride, prepare to cringe at least a little at number 10: According to research published in November in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, having sex with animals is linked with penile cancer .

Researchers managed to uncover this connection by studying 492 men from rural Brazil. They found that a whopping 35 percent reported sex with animals in their lifetimes. Men with penile cancer were more likely to have had sex with animals, the researchers found. They speculate that penile injuries plus foreign secretion from distantly related species may introduce microorganisms that cause cancer, much as the human papilloma virus does. Now if you’ll excuse us, we’re off to bleach our brains.

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Meditation is one of the proven alternative therapies that in recent years have been classified under the mind-body medicine therapies. It is continuing to gain popularity, as more and more health experts believe that there is more to the connection between mind and body than modern medicine can explain. Meditation has been shown to aid the immune system and improve brain activity, according to researchers. More and more doctors are prescribing meditation as a way to lower blood pressure, improve exercise performance, for people with angina, to help people with asthma to breathe easier, to relieve insomnia, and generally relax everyday stresses of life. Many hospitals now offer meditation classes for their patients because of the health benefits. All promote physiological health and well-being.

Traditionally meditation has been used for spiritual growth but more recently has become a valuable tool for managing stress and finding a place of peace, relaxation, and tranquility in a demanding fast-paced world. Benefits resulting from meditation include: physical and emotional healing; easing stress, fear, and grief; improved breathing; developing intuition; deep relaxation; exploring higher realities; finding inner guidance; unlocking creativity; manifesting change; emotional cleansing and balancing; and deepening concentration and insight.

Meditation elicits many descriptive terms: stillness, silence, tranquility, peace, quiet, and calm. All counter stress and tension. Lama Surya Das in his book Awakening The Buddha Within says, “Meditation is not just something to do; it’s a method of being and seeing – an unconditional way of living moment by moment.” In other words, learning to live in this moment because this moment is all we have. Henry Winkler is quoted as saying; “A human being’s first responsibility is to shake hands with himself.” Meditation is an opportunity to ‘shake hands with ourselves’ in a safe, simple way and to balance our emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual well-being.

Meditation takes many forms in today’s society. All have one thing in common. They use concentration techniques to still the mind and stop thought. Various practices exist such as chanting (Mantra), focusing on energy centres in the body (Chakra Meditation), breathing, mindfulness (Mahamudra), loving kindness, formal sitting (Vipassana), expressive practices (Siddha Yoga), and walking to name some of the styles. Try each style and see what works for you or you may want to alternate between the techniques from time to time. For the purposes of this article, I will discuss Mahamudra and walking meditation.

Practical Steps To Begin Meditating

1. Find a place where there are few external distractions. A place where you feel emotionally comfortable, safe, removed from pressure and stress is the optimal location.

2. Wear clothing that is loose and sit or lie in a comfortable position.

3. Plan to meditate in an area that is warm and comfortable. You might want to have a blanket or light covering as some people experience a feeling of coolness when they aren’t moving around for a period of time.

4. Candles can be used to focus attention on the task at hand. If you use them, remember to be cautious and extinguish them before leaving the room.

5. Relaxation is a key component of meditation. Take a few moments to bring about a state of relaxation by taking a deep breath through your nose, expanding your lungs and diaphragm. Hold the breath for a few seconds and slowly exhale through your mouth. Do this several times until you feel relaxed.

6. Calm, soothing music can be helpful for inducing a state of tranquillity and relaxation

7. If you are hungry, have a little something to eat, as it is not necessary to meditate on a completely empty stomach.

8. Put your expectations aside and don’t worry about doing it right.

Meditation

Mahamudra is the form of meditation that is a way of going about one’s daily activities in a state of mindfulness. It is meditation integrated into all aspects of our lives. This following exercise is one you can do anywhere to create a feeling of inner peace. It is particularly helpful for those times you are stuck in traffic, waiting in line at the grocery store or bank, at the office when days are hectic, or when you are picking up the kids from school or extra-curricular activities. “What I do today is important because I am exchanging a day of my life for it,” wrote Hugh Mulligan. Meditation helps us remember to stop and ‘smell the daisies.’

Begin by taking a deep breath. Breathe deeply and as you do expand your lungs and your diaphragm. Hold the breath for a few seconds and slowly exhale through the mouth. Focus on your breath and clear your mind. Do this several times until you feel the slowing of your breath and a deep sense of peace fill your body. Consciously feel the peace permeate your body. Drop your shoulders and connect through the top of your head to the Universal Energy. Repeat. If you wish, send peace to those around you by connecting to their hearts with light and love.

Walking Meditation

A walking meditation is simply an exercise in awareness. There are four components:

become aware of your breathing,

notice your surroundings,

be attentive to your body’s movement, and

take some time to reflect on your experience when you return home.

To practice ‘awareness walking’ bring awareness to walking wherever you find yourself. Take notice of your breathing. Are you taking short, shallow breaths without even knowing it? If so, take several deep breaths and centre yourself in your body and in the present moment. Appreciate the wonderful body you have and the blessing of being able to walk.

Notice your surroundings. What season is it? Take a few minutes to listen to the noises around you. Feel the wind, sun, fog, rain or snow on your face. Look at the people, animals, birds, sky, trees, and buildings around you. Breathe in and out and realise that you are an integral part of the environment.

Pay attention to your body. Are you holding tension in your shoulders, neck, solar plexus, lower back, or legs? Breath into any areas where you are feeling tension and let it drain into the Earth. Next, pay attention to your posture. Are you standing straight and tall or slouching? Walk in a way that is comfortable for you with your body loose and uplifted. Walk with dignity and confidence, one foot in front of the other and pay attention to the experience of movement. You can walk mindfully anywhere, along a sidewalk, walking your dog, in the mall, along the hallways at work. You simply remind yourself to be in this moment, taking each step as it comes. Some people find it helpful to repeat a mantra (mantras are sacred words repeated in order to bring focus to your mind). You can also use a variation on the walking mantra by counting your breaths. Walk more slowly than you usually do and count how many steps it takes for your intake of breath and how many steps for your exhale. In this type of meditation, your attention is focused on both your steps and your breathing bringing together a wonderful balance of peacefulness and awareness.

Take some time to reflect on your experience when you return home. Five or ten minutes brings closure to your walk and provides an opportunity to make the transition from this ‘place of peace’ to ordinary day-to-day activities.

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